Struggling with sex, touch, or emotional connection?
Feel shut down, ashamed, or unsure how to reconnect with yourself or your partner?
You’re not alone.
- Emotional intimacy struggles
- Sexless relationships
- Porn addiction or compulsive behaviors
- Consent confusion and boundary repair
- Touch aversion and shutdown during intimacy
- Solo intimacy and self-pleasure
- Rebuilding trust after betrayal or disconnection
You don’t have to have the answers. You just have to want something different.
What Is Rooted Intimacy?
Rooted Intimacy is a nervous-system aware, peer-based coaching space that supports people of all genders in navigating:
Who This Is For
This space is especially supportive for:
- People in sexless or emotionally disconnected relationships
- Folks healing from trauma, religious shame, or sexual conditioning
- Those exploring solo pleasure, kink, or suppressed desires
- Neurodivergent people (ADHD, autism, sensory-sensitive)
- LGBTQIA+ and gender-expansive individuals exploring identity and intimacy
- Parents, caregivers, or burned-out partners who’ve lost connection
- Anyone navigating intimacy struggles after betrayal, shutdown, or confusion
You might be searching:
“Why do I feel numb during sex?”
“I cheated - can I rebuild trust?”
“Is porn addiction ruining my relationship?”
“I love my partner, but I don’t want touch anymore.”
We work with people who are asking those same questions and offer a soft, shame-free way forward.
What Support Looks Like
✧ Voxer-Based Intimacy Coaching
Private voice/text messaging support for:
- Exploring shame, desire, or trauma at your own pace
- Emotional unpacking and nervous system regulation
- Ongoing consent and embodiment coaching
Perfect for those who:
Struggle with live conversation or vulnerability on video
Want daily support while processing quietly
Need time to respond and reflect between interactions
Monday - Friday
9AM - 6PM Central
✧ Optional Zoom Sessions
Live 60-minute sessions are available for those who want deeper connection, guided reflection, or gentle co-regulation in real time. These sessions are designed to feel like a safe, grounded conversation - never rushed, never clinical, and never about “fixing” you.
You can show up with a specific question, a tangled experience, or just a feeling in your chest that you haven’t quite put into words. We’ll follow your pace and your cues.
Monday - Friday
10AM - 3PM Central
Topics We Can Explore
Safety & Ethics
All support is confidential and grounded in:
- Consent-centered conversation
- Legal and ethical exploration of intimacy
- Safety for LGBTQIA+ and gender-diverse clients
- Zero pressure, zero performance, zero shame
This isn’t therapy - it’s rooted support for real people with real struggles.
Meet Your Guide
- Shut down during sex or touch
- Felt addicted to porn or pleasure but didn’t know why
- Cheated on someone they loved and needed to understand themselves again
- Lost intimacy in their marriage or partnership and wanted to rebuild
- Felt ashamed of their fantasies or kink interests
- Never felt fully safe in their own body
Ready to Get Started?
If you're asking:
- “What’s wrong with me?”
- “Why do I feel so disconnected?”
- “Can I fix this before I lose everything?”
- “Can I feel safe in my body again?”
Let’s begin.
If you’re a man or masculine-aligned person and want a space that speaks directly to your experience →
You’re allowed to need help.
You’re allowed to be messy.
You’re allowed to come home to your body again.
